Just wanted to say that I have been reading through your archives for the last hour or so, and really enjoying them. Having encountered sensible advice from you on the AP forum over on iVillage, I wondered how you’d found things when Bernard was the age my daughter is now (just coming up to five months); it’s very familiar territory, especially when you wrote that you read everything available and still doubted your own instincts and reactions. I’m hoping to learn to have a little more faith in myself, having read that. So, thank you.